So here's to 7 years and 7 things I've learned. We have messed up more times then we have got it right. We have done and said some of the worse things to each other but we have also shown love and grace over and over and over again. That's what marriage is. It's not a feeling or a beneficial agreement it's a decision that even though I want to punch you in the face right now I am going to cherish you, I am going to speak kindly, accept you and pray for you every single day.